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I discovered my husband was already married & had a daughter – I found out when his wife messaged me on Facebook

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By Yasmin Harisha

A wife was left in shock after she discovered her husband was already married and had a daughter.

Maria Guillen Garcia suspected husband Tom McCabe hadn’t been honest with her when she found pictures of his family on his phone.

Maria believes she was Tom's 'cash cow'

Maria believes she was Tom’s ‘cash cow’ Credit: Mirrorpix
The couple met after responding to a 'lonely hearts' ad

The couple met after responding to a ‘lonely hearts’ ad Credit: Mirrorpix

Support worker Maria said McCabe, who she met through a lonely hearts ad in 2009, “seemed to be in a hurry to get married” after only knowing him for nine months.

But unsuspecting of him, she decided to continue with the wedding but when she arrived at the register office – her groom was missing.

Maria was about to miss her slot to tie the knot with Tom McCabe when he burst in clutching a bouquet. He said: “I just had to get you some flowers.”

Seven years on, Maria discovered that the reason for the jitters was that he was already married.

She also ended up in £21,000 of debt after bankrolling McCabe.

McCabe, 51, said he had never been wed and he and ex of 14 years, Bridget O’Connell, had not had kids.

However, his lies were exposed when Maria helped him update his phone software and saw photos of his first family on Facebook and discovered that they had not divorced and that he had a daughter, aged 23.

Police quizzed McCabe in 2016 but he fled and was found in Hyde End, Bucks, earlier this year.

Last week, at North London’s Highbury Corner Magistrates’ Court, he admitted bigamy.

The court heard he originally claimed Bridget, who lives in Ireland, had told him they were divorced. They wed in 1995 and split up in 2004.

Bigamy is the act of entering into a marriage with one person while still legally married to another.

He said he loved me but I was his cash cow

Maria Guillen Garcia

Maria paid £2,500 for their August 2010 nuptials and £1,600 to have their marriage annulled.

She said: “He said he loved me but I was his cash cow.”

Maria told the court: “I have been living a life with him for nearly seven years and he caused me to land in over £21,000 of debt, pushing me to get loan after loan, borrowing from the bank and my colleagues.

“Money he said was for a van, for certificates to do work and for a surveyor for a house he said he had bought.”

In 2013 Maria left him after they were unable to pay the rent and were evicted from their house, but he begged her to come back and they gave it another go.

However, she was suspicious as she had never met his family.

When she confronted McCabe about the photos he made excuses.

Bridget, now 58, replied in 2016 to Maria’s Facebook message, saying: “If he married you he is a bigamist, as we are not divorced.”

Maria called the police and flew to Spain after leaving a copy of her  marriage certificate with the words “null and void” written across it, her wedding ring and a note which said: “I want you out by the time I get back.”


About Charles Igbinidu

Charles Igbinidu is a Public Relations practitioner in Lagos, Nigeria

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